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HIDALGO COUNTY HERALD FRIDAY, JUNE 21, 2013 7 Just A Thought The ripple effc ;t or this thing called life The small spark spreads outwards and impacts every tree in the for- est. Whether you teach children or drive a truck, answer phones for a living or work at home, each day of your life you impact the lives rou touch. Every minute we .  live we have the oppor- tunity to add to or to take away from others. It all begins on the inside. I find that unhappy people make others unhappy. I find that hurting people hurt people. In other words, what is on a person's inside will have a direct correlation on what comes out of a per- son. A person cannot give away what he doesn't have. The Bible tells us at Mat- thew 12:34, "For the mouth speaks from the overflow of the heart." What you have inside you will determine what comes out of you. It begins in our heart. It moves outward through our mouth and our actions. It impacts and influences others, and then the ripple moves outwards into and through the lives of others. You always reap what you sew. If you are sowing dandelion seeds, you are going to grow weeds. If you are sowing apple seeds, you are going to grow apples. What is'happening on our inside in most cases is not readily available to those on the outside. There are exceptions, but for the most part, if we randomly walk up to a stranger and begin to en- gage in a dialogue, we don't know what is going on inside the stranger just from looking at him or her. Life would be more inter- esting if God had made us with numbers on our foreheads. Stick with me, let me explain. What if God had created us in such a manner that in the middle of each of our foreheads was a box with a number inside it. The number would be some- where between zero and ten. It would measure our state of mind or happiness or satisfaction with the world. If a ten appeared in a By RICK KRAFT In the life you live, may you touch and change for the better the lives of people you never meet in places you never visit. This is my prayer for you. Is this even possible? Sure it is. Not a single one of us knows how far the influence of our actions extend. Only God knows. The actions we take today may manifest them- selves decades from now in the lives of people we will never meet in locations that we never journey to. Bottom line, as we move through our lives day to day, none of us know just how far the ripple effect will extend from the actions we take. Let me break this apart for you. Each of us influences the lives of others. The question isn't "Do you want to influence oth- ers?," it is "Whom do you influ- ence?" I guess you could move to a remote island as its only in- habitant and live out your life in solitude and then argue that you are not influencing others. But even this act causes an impact on the friends and family who you leave behind. In other words, in just living day to day you have an impact on the lives of other lives you interact with. Then add to this the fact that everyone you influ- ence influences others. As a small pebble dropped into the middle of a pond sends ripples outward across the pond, everything we do radiates out- ward influencing and impacting others. The ripple from the pebble expands from the spot it is dropped radiating outward incre- mentally in every direction. It is the same with the actions we take. None of us knows the full extent or impact of the ripples we send out. It is pushing the first domino in a line up of a thousand domi- nos. The action on the first domino will, over time, result in the last domino falling over. It is a spark at the edge of a dry forest. Rick Kraft Foster, adoptive parents needed in New Mexico terwith adults and older children. She successfully completed 8 'h grade. She enjoys reading, draw- ing, and listening to music. Desirae is multi- cultural consisting of IA White, 1/8 Hopi, 1/16 Navajo, 1/16 Tohono O'odham Nation and 1/2 unknown. Unfortunately she is not eligible for Tribal enrollment, so ICWA (Indian Child Welfare Act) does not apply. We are accepting in- quiries from all ap- proved adoptive families at this time. An adoptive family with expe- rience with children in foster care would be preferred with knowl- edge about attachment and trauma. For more information about adopting or fostering through the New Mexico Children, Youth and Families Department, please visit www.CYFD.org or call 1-800- 432-2075. Submitted by CYFD Becoming a foster or adop- tive parent can make a huge dif- ference in the life of a child. Join us for an information meet- ing to be held this month of Febru- ary in your area. Please call Ronny Diaz, CYFD Foster & Adoptive Parent Recruiter at (575) 434-5950 ext. 121 for more informa- tion or visit us on the web at www.cyfd.org. Se Habla Espanol Foster or Adopta New Mexico Youth Name: Desirae Age" 14 Story: Desirae wants to be part of a family that can provide her with plenty of individual at- tention and time to build a trust- ing relationship. Desirae is a per- sonable child who gets along bet- RED Desirae person's box, he is having an awesome day. If a zero appeared in the box, he is scraping bottom at that point in his day. If you walked up to a stranger who had a two in his box, you would know what is going on on the inside of the person, just as you would if you encoun- tered a nine. Let's say you go to mail a letter at the post office and your number is a five and you run into another who has a three on their forehead. You greet the per- son and tell them you like the shirt they have on. You watch their number jump from a three to a five. They smile and respond 'back, "Thank you." Your num- ber goes from a five to a six. You both part ways, but both of you now are having a better day as you leave. Quite simply, you have added to the life of another. You have taken something that is in- side you and by communicating it to another you have given them an extra bounce in their step. The ripple effect starts on your inside. Many of you are in- fluencing a child or children. The lives of the children you are in- fluencing will impact the lives of others that each child interacts with for the rest of their lives...even after you are gone. It can be a mind boggling thought, but your influence On your child or grandchild will impact others dozens and dozens of years from now for better or worse. Your greatest legacy in this world may be the positive influ- ence you have on others from the lives of a child or children that you pour yourself into. How is that for a thought? I guess what I am saying is don't underestimate anything that you do. A kind act, a sharp word, a small donation to a char- ity, cursing out loud at a stranger, telling your spouse you love him or her, honking at the car in front of you, an uplifting call to a friend...each of these simple acts has an impact and begins the ripple effect. I don't want to over empha- size the impact of small acts, but actfons that seem meaningless can change another person's day. A series of small actions can change another person's life. My challenge to you today is to understand the ripple effect of everythifig you do. It begins on your inside. Look inward first. What is in your heart? A good heart produces good actions. Then ask questions such as "What actions come out of you?" "Are you adding to the value of others or taking away? .... Are you contagious with an attitude that is worth catching or do people scatter when you walk in the room? .... Are you equipping oth- ers you interact with, friends and strangers alike, to positively in- fluence the lives of others?" You may think you are merely dropping a pebble in the middle of a pond, but the end re- sult may be a life changed for- ever. I will close as this column began. In the life you live, may you touch and chage for the bet- ter the lives of people you never meet in places you never visit. It is the ripple effect. Just a thought... Rick Kraft is a motivational speaker, a published author, and an attorney. To submit comments, contributions, or ideas, e-mail to rkraft@ kraftandhunter.com or write to P.O. Box 850, Roswell, New Mexico, 88202 - 0850. HILADA , S'ALE Beans & Salad 00/plAte Friday, J u npeM21 9AM-5 Pick up or,Delivery. 575-534-5292 or 575-574-7801 Proceeds to benefit Little Angels Daycare A Picture From The Past By EDMUND SAUCEDO/Lordsburg Photo courtesy 1958 LORDSBURG HIGH SCHOOL MAVERICK YEARBOOK Left to right: Jackie Galusha, Jim Culberson and Willa Lunt, Lordsburg High School band students and members of All State Band in 1958. Jackie, Jim and Willa are members of the LHS Class of 1959. The classes of the 1930s, '40s and '50s have been invited to join the classes of the 1960s at their reunion on September 27, 28, and 29. Willa sent her regrets and will not be able to attend as she and her husband are on a mission for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. The reunion registration form is included in this edition of the Hidalgo County Herald. If you would like a larger version of the form, call (575) 542-9716 and a copy will be mailed to you. The completed form can be mailed to 324 W. Railway Blvd., Lordsburg, NM 88045, or hand:delivered to the office of the Herald. the DOOItOUSE? We cnM 00e/f g# i/oa ohm f . Call 575.542.8880 June 24 Eove-ou,. a,,,i/V SIXTIES REUNION Lordsburg High School Classes 1960- 1969 Classes of the 1930s, '40s, mid '50s are invited to join the festivities. The Lordsburg High School 1960,3 Reunion Committee is holding a reunion tbr the classes of 1960 through 1969, in Lordsburg, NM, on Sept. 27, 28, and 29, 2013. The classes of the 1930s. '40s and '50s are invited. Fomler classmates from these decades are invited regardless ifthey graduated from LHS. Registration will be held at the ttampton Inn, the reunion's headquarters, starting at 1:00 p.m., Friday, Septem bet 27, followed by the homecoming tbotball game at Maverick Stadium at 7:00 p.m. The classes of the 1930s, '40 and "50s will he honored at a reception on Saturday. September 28 at 9:00 a.m., at Lordsburg Cafetorium, with music, a guest of honor and speakers from each decade. The ('lasses of the 1960s are also inviled to attend the reception. There is no fee to attend the reception. A banquet and dance Will he held on Saturday night at 5:00 p.m.. at the Armory on Second Street with a guest of honor, guest speakers, picture taking, a special tribute to the deceased '60s classmates, recognition of the 50th annk ersau , of the (?lass of 1963, and lots of reminiscing. On Sunday, September 29, enjoy a hamburger fry at the Special Events (.'enter on Second St. from 12:00 ,loon to 2:00 p.m. Complete the registration form below. Indicate if you plan to attend the reception, banquet, dance or hamburger fry and return it with your fee no later than August 27, 2013. Your fee will help pay for reunion expenses, Register, send in your fee, and comeback to Lordsburg and reconnect with old friends and classmates! Name (include maiden name if applicable) Address (!lass Year (regardless if you graduated) Telephone numhcr (best number to reach you). City State Zip E-mail Address Reunion fee- $65.00 per couple Make checks payable to SLvties 2013 Reunion Committee. $40.00 for singles Mail check and form to 324tl.RailwayBh,d.,LorLburg, NM88045. Number attending the reception honoring the i 930s, '40s and "50s. ____Number attending the '60s banquet and dance. Hampton Inn of Lordsburg ($79.00 per night) 412 Wabash St., Lordsburg (575) 542-8900 Days Inn & Suites ($60.00 per night) 1426 W. Motel Drive, Lordsburg (575) 542-3600 Optional: Number attending the hamburger fD. Accommodations Comfort Inn & Suites ($69.99 per night) 400 W. Wabash St., l,ordsburg (575) 542-3355 Yes, ! would like to support the restoration of the historic old Lordsburg Junior High School ors